I have to admit, I didn’t know what was happening at times, and I was having a difficult time making decisions. The health literacy of the caregiver can influence how the patient does long term (Wittenberg, et al., 2017). My ability to make decisions regarding life-sustaining treatment, understand the implications, and grasp what was happening was severely affected. The environment being strange, the stress and fear combined to limit my health literacy. Health literacy can be situational (Halm, 2021). It brought fear and trepidation to my mind as I tried to be brave. You see, there were technology and protocols that I had only read about but never experienced. I realized that at this moment in time I was no longer the nurse, educator, and expert I like to think of myself as. As I sat there, the physicians and nurses were trying to explain to me what was going on. This was complicated by her respiratory sarcoidosis. This past summer, my mother ended up in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU) with an unusual infection in her neck and throat resulting in her intubation. I would like to admit something … I don’t know everything. Click on the links below to find out more.By Marguerite DeBello, PhD, RN, ACNS-BC, CNE If you enjoyed this post and want to support the blog then please consider buying one of my books or hiring me for coaching. But I truly believe that happiness is found in growth and that “getting by” eventually becomes unsatisfactory. It’s a lot more than they were getting pre-Game. It seems that a lot of guys have more of a “continual dedication to getting by.” To be fair, for most guys this is great. This goes all the way back to Daygame Mastery ( link here) where Krauser talks about having a continual dedication to excellence. This means methodically attacking your own weaknesses and eliminating all of the silly errors from your Game. This is one of the themes of my upcoming book (out this Wednesday): you need to make a concerted effort to get better at Game you can’t just hope that you will. I guess each person has their own specific problems but normally it’s that the guy has exhausted all of the low hanging fruit and now needs to reach for the high hanging ones (I have a recent post on this topic link here).
The second part of my answer is in regards to what holds most intermediates back. Naturally as time has gone on I’ve had more and more opportunities to meet other Daygamers. Whether that’s a particular part of their charisma or something they do. I try to take the best of each Daygamer I meet and incorporate that within myself. Lastly, I’d say I get an “aha” moment whenever I meet another competent Daygamer. Once I could accurately spot that moment, I could relax entirely, which I guess would contribute to her attraction too. Normally that would mean me spotting her playing with her hair or giving a specific kind of eye contact. That led to another “aha” moment: being able to spot the point where the girl goes from being undecided to liking me. The knock-on effect was that I could put more focus on where the girl was. That my words, behaviours and vibe were passively attractive. That I didn’t need to actively work to make a girl like me. This will sound wishy-washy, but I suddenly knew that I was a cool guy. We have to step away and come back before we can appreciate how far we’ve come.Ī strong “aha” moment happened to me last year when I came back from a break. We get better so slowly that we don’t notice it in the moment. When I came back from those breaks I could really see how far I’d come. That meant having December, January and February off. However, in the past two years, I’ve taken a proper hibernation. That would mean taking a three week break from Game. In the past I’d take Christmas off as I was with my family. I think I noticed the changes the most when I camTe back from breaks from Game. So really I’m saying you have to keep at it and trust that those sets are growing your Daygame muscle in the background without you even noticing it. Each set over the past five and a half years turned the dial ever so slightly in my favour. It wasn’t quite “aha” moments that caused the change but there were “aha” moments where I realised that the change had happened. First off, it’s important to say that these things take time.
The first is to do with the “aha” moments. I got that question Rob and there are two parts to my answer.
What were your “aha” concepts/moments that moved your game from intermediate to advanced? or another way to put it, are there any commonalities you have noticed from coaching people at the intermediate/low intermediate that hold them back?
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